Deaf girls never say no (continue 2.1)

Thank you, Otto, for the elucidated comment as usual and for framing the stereotypical speculation! Otto's comment: "evidential reasoning from first-hand experience" which was heartily acquiesced upon by Chris, my former Deaf classmate and now ASL tutor. Today was my first ASL tutoring session with Chris. We had rationalized our misunderstanding that we had a few weeks ago. We agreed to put that behind us and become friends. I, surprisingly, got beautiful tulips from him as an apology for his attutide towards me, which given the consideration, I declared it justified. I had exhibited inappropriate things to him some time ago. My naivete and my mistake.

Back on topic, I summoned up my courage and met Joseph at the cafe for lunch to pry into his thoughts on the "Deaf girls never say no" topic. In truth, I reckoned that Joseph would dismiss this stereotypical speculation but outstandingly, he didn't. Anecdotally, he hadn't answered the question point-blank. He wrote pausingly, "This is an discrete opinion". Baffled, I asked him for the exposition of his statement. He gave me a soft smile and shook his head. Then, wrote down that he felt awkward to consult it with a student, especially a young woman like me about his past with Deaf women. I was disheartened but I understood his genuine concerns. He, notwithstanding, left a small note, "Ask me again when you are no longer my student. And it may be not true for other women." Short and simple. Before I left for my class, we had a pleasant chitchat about sociocultural topics (my fav subject).

Within a few hours, I met Chris at the lab for our ASL session. We both had an enjoyable time laughing at my awkardness in ASL and kooky facials. I made a promise to myself not to ask him about the "Deaf girls never say no" until the session was over. I kept it until the end and asked. Chris tightened his lips, blinked a few times, stared at me and nodded all over at once. Ostensibly he had bitter experiences with Deaf women. I pondered. He wrapped up his past about several Deaf women he liked and crushed upon. They condescendingly rejected him while they titillatingly accepted hearing men's propositions. He had thought that it was himself who had the women problems but considered how Deaf women were brutalized by hearing men yet they still kept chasing after those guys. They declined Chris's proposition every time he asked them out for a date while hearing men left them for other hearing or Deaf women. I thought to myself, it was their loss, really. He's such a cute guy. To lift his spirit up, I flirtingly teased him that I'd graciously accept if he asked me out for a date in a very, very subtle way.

But of course, as many men hadn't, he hadn't noticed the hint. Men (sigh). The bonus, although, was that it lifted his spirits.

Sorry. Where was I? Oh. Yeah. Considering the homework we had done, we chitchatted for an hour or two by pen and paper and basic ASL. On different topics including "Deaf girls never say no". I told him about Otto whom commented on my old post. Chris seconded his deduction, "Evidential reasoning from first-hand experience" and "personal experience". I, nevertheless, bickered with him that men similiarly would never say "no" to a hot bod and beautiful women. He backed off a bit. Chris proclaimed that it would be unprincipled to verify this stereotypical speculation as empirical fact.

The chitchat I had with Chris (including Otto's comment) gave me an idea; I'm going to track down the rumor or speculation of "Deaf girls never say no" because here, at the university, it's a popular concept and it needed to be narrowed down and plucked out. It gave people an erroneously impression and message. According to Joseph, there're about 30 Deaf students. Four-fifth of them are women.

What's new: The new same avatar and LTL (Language, Truth and Logic) Highlights. Most gracious thank to my roommate for adding the black and white photographic effect. I have always liked black and white photos. Note - I'm computer illiterate to the extreme.